Conversations Should Take Place

One of the people who were supporting the woman said: “I would prepare to be flamed and called grabby. If this is the man you intend to spend the rest of your life with, you should be able to have a conversation about this.”

The Voice Of Reason

While everyone was being judgemental, a random user felt the woman’s concern and had only one advice for her. He said frankly that its everyone’s right to be happy and she can be equally frank in front of her fiancé about this matter. Although the man also warned her to be polite and very cautious with the choice of words as it might hurt her fiancé’s feelings.

Replacing It

There was one more thinker among the critics, a lady who suggested that a ring is not that big of a deal. If she wanted to save her relationship and have a better ring at the same time, then she should take the ring back to the store and change with a slightly better piece.

Further Explanation

The same user further explained the idea in detail. She told the pros of this plan by stating: in that way, her fiancé will not even get to know if there was anything wrong with the ring ever and she’ll get the ring of her choice.

No Solution Found

The sad fact was that there was a huge difference in the number of reasonable comments and the comments full of allegations. The good ones were very few in numbers and the bad ones were in abundance. Was this woman able to find a solution through this post?

Relatable

One of the comments read: “You will get flamed for this, and people will call you grabby, but I can see where you are coming from — not the cost per se but the fact [that you] will be wearing it every day, and [you] are not totally in love with it. I can see both viewpoints.”